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'Harmonizing with Universal Laws'

Harmonizing with the immutable and Unwavering power of the Universal Laws is Absolutely NECESSARY to manifest lasting success, abundance and happiness into YOUR life!

Universal Laws, also referred to as Spiritual Laws or Laws of Nature are the unwavering and unchanging principles that rule our entire universe and are the means by which our ourselves, our world and the entire cosmos continues to exist, thrive and expand.

Contrary to majority belief...Universal Laws are not based on theory or speculation. What at one point was believed to be only theoretical, mystical or spiritual in nature and understood only by those who learned to tap into the place from where 'Higher Truth' comes, has now emerged and become evident in the latest discoveries and is now being measured on a physical level.

In essence, Universal Laws, or Laws of Nature as they are often called, are the governing force that determine without fail EVERY aspect of creation including each of the events, conditions and circumstances experienced by you, me and everyone else in the world on both an individual and collective level.

"Since you have control over what thoughts you offer, what could be more just than the powerful Law of Attraction responding equally to everyone who offers a vibration? Once you gain control over the thoughts you think, your sense of injustice will subside and will be replaced with the exuberance for life and the zest to create that you were born with. Let everything in the Universe be an example to you of the way the Laws of the Universe work."
--- Abraham

'What is Your ‘Tar Baby’?

We all have them. We all have our 'Tar Baby'. So, what is a 'Tar Baby'?  To understand you need an explanation of The Law of Attraction which is the law that responds to us and gives us back what we give out in the form of our feelings. The definition of The Law of Attraction is -'that which is like unto itself is drawn', 'like attracts like' and 'you get what you think about, both wanted and unwanted.' I also want to remind you that everything is energy and all energy has a vibration. Thought is energy that has a vibration that is projected out and attracts more of the same.   

Now, back to the 'Tar Baby'. To best explain this I will use a couple of common examples. Let's say you are in debt and there isn't enough money coming in to cover the amount you owe. The bills come in and when you open them, you feel bad. You can feel the emotions of fear and worry and sometimes it can feel overwhelming, and you don't know what to do. You wish your debt would just go away. Therefore, debt is your 'Tar Baby'. You don't want debt and you push against it. But in an attraction based universe, what happens when you push against anything is that you attract more of the same. Picture a very sticky 'tar baby.' You push it away with one hand and it get's stuck, so you use your other one and it gets stuck too. Now you use your foot to push and it gets stuck and then the other. Now you are totally stuck to your 'Tar Baby.' Are you relating to this? This is why we keep attracting the very things we don't want; in this example more debt.  

Now let's use another example that we can all relate to. Something more group oriented. Let's say you are a member of a group such as 'Mother's Against Drunk Driving'. Before I go on, I want to make it clear that I am not using this particular group for any other reason than that it is well known. Everything has two sides to it, so there is positive and negative in all groups. You get involved because you are against drunk driving also. The 'Tar Baby' is drunk driving. One person decided to create this group. They pushed against drunk driving and got totally stuck so they needed others to help them get unstuck, but they got stuck too. More help was needed and so on and so on until it becomes a large group pushing against something, The more you push against, the more stuck you get.

 

When we put our attention on what we don't want, we will continue to get what we don't want. The Law of Attraction makes it so. 

The way to attract more of what we want, can only be to put our attention on what we do want.. To create the experience you desire, you have to begin to think better feeling thoughts. The feelings are our 'attractor factor' that attract more of the same.  

Let's go back to the debt ‘Tar Baby’. Instead of pushing against it, begin to consciously and deliberately decide to think a different thought about it. You can start to think thoughts of appreciation about how you were able to get the things you needed or wanted at the time. You can also decide to feel good about any amount you can pay toward the debt. You can imagine what your life will be like when you are free of debt and even the conversations you will have when you are no longer in debt. If you just can't feel good about it, just choose anything else to appreciate and feel good about. The reason for these suggestions goes to the fundamental understanding of the Law of Vibration. When we can feel better about anything, we will attract more of what feels better. 

 

Now, let's go back to the Mothers Against Drunk Driving 'Tar Baby'. Can you see that with the understanding of the universal laws that a far better approach to changing drunk driving is to be for driving sober? And that continuing to push against drunk driving can only bring attention to drunk driving that the Law of Attraction will respond to and bring more of?   

There is a great story about Mother Theresa . When she was asked to join a march to protest against the Vietnam War, she said "no, but when you have a march for peace I will be there." This is a perfect answer for how to attract more of what you want. 

So, what is your  'Tar Baby'? Notice the things in your life that you are pushing against. Change your thoughts and feelings about them in ways that feel better. Decide that the most important  thing is that you feel good right now; because you now understand that the better you feel the better it gets. Use the power you have to be the 'attractor factor' of more of what you want and watch as the universal laws respond with more of the same.


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                                            'Wired For Success'

Success is in the mind. Literally. Our brain is a laboratory. It will take ideas and concepts and build on them. It asks the what ‘ifs’ , the possibilities and potentials. It is the architect. When we focus on our idea of the success we desire in our business and in our lives, the idea moves to the frontal lobe. As we put aside the distractions, it becomes more real than the external environment.  With all of our awareness on our idea of success, it becomes our new reality. In that moment another part of the brain is activated called the cerebellum. This part has millions of connections and its purpose is to endorse our new idea of success which has been activated in the frontal lobe. It gives life to it and causes the brain to become rewired with a new perception of reality.

Why is this important? By understanding the way we create with our minds, we can begin to break the habits that are keeping us apart from being a success. We can break the habit of being who we now are and create a new successful self.  Just as we can delete old files in our computers and download new ones, we can delete old programming that we have been carrying around that tell us that we aren’t worthy of success or that it’s hard to be successful and replace them with ones that support us and keep us on track toward the success we desire.

How do we do this? We begin by using the above knowledge and mentally rehearse the new idea of our successful self.  We spend time each day just as an Olympic athlete dedicates time to his goal of winning the gold medal.  We don’t let anything get in the way of our dream. We mentally practice our new self who is already a success and take inspired action that will create the outcome we want.  We filter out the distractions and focus our attention on what we want. We ask important questions such as: ‘ who would I be if I were a success’?  ‘What would I be doing with my time’? ‘What will my conversations sound like’? ‘What will my life look like’?

Because of the chemical and physiological changes in the brain created by our new thinking , new pathways have been formed. The brain builds upon the law of association. We now have a new concept of our self as a success.  Then,  by the law of repetition that says that if we do something over and over again,  the process of creating the new version of our successful self starts to become simple, automatic and natural. Now , it has also become sub-conscious.  The new idea has become hardwired. We are now ‘wired’ for success. 

                    

                       'What you see is what you get'

I'm sure you have heard the expression 'What you see is what you get.' The fact is, these words are absolutely true. When you understand that what you focus on increases and that your point of attention is your point of attraction, you will see what I mean.
 
We have an incredible ability to create using our imagination. Everything began first as an idea. Using your imagination to picture what you want, feeling the feeling as if you have it, is being a powerful creator.  Remember, the law of attraction is always responding to how you feel and giving you more of the same.  How you feel is as a result of the 'essence' of your thoughts. The essence is the true feeling. So, in other words you can't fake it.  When you say you are feeling good  when you aren't, you can't fool the Law of Attraction. It will pick up on the true frequency of your thoughts and feelings and respond with the same. Remember -like attract like. Einstein made it clear when he said 'Imagination is everything. It is the preview of life's coming attractions.'
 
Research shows that we have over 60 thousand thoughts in a day, so it's not possible to monitor our thoughts. What you can do is notice how you feel as a result of what you have been thinking and imagining. If you feel good, keep going.  But, if you feel negative, stop and deliberately choose a better feeling thought and picture what you want. What you see in your mind is what you are going to get, when you practice the idea until you believe it.  As Napoleon Hill author of Think And Grow Rich' remind us, 'What the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve.'
So  what can you do to practice seeing what you want so that you can attract it into your life? First and foremost, make the time in our day to sit quietly, breath deeply and imagine what you want. Just let yourself have what you want in your mind. Feel what it will feel like having what you want. Be light and easy about it. If you begin to feel negative because you don't have it right now, just notice the resistance and don't judge it. Let it go. Go back to deeply breathing until you feel less resistance. The key is to practice. The more you do, the more you will release resistance to the idea of having what you want. We are either resisting or allowing. In time you will increase the feeling of allowing; you will begin to believe in your desire. Once you believe it you can achieve it.
 
Another very powerful way is to create a Vision Board. To create a vision board, all you do is cut out pictures from magazines and other sources that represent what you want and put them onto a large board. Your vision board can also include words, phrases and sentences. Place it where it will be visible to you-especially first thing in the morning and before you go to sleep. There is actual science behind creating a vision board. The key purpose that vision boards serve is to keep you focused.  No matter what happens during your day, your vision board will be a constant reminder of what you want and where you want to be. Appealing to you on both conscious and subconscious levels, a vision board is a powerful  and effective way to keep your mind focused on your goals, your attention on your intentions, and your life on track toward your desires.
 
I have found this great tool to create an online Vision Board that is very helpful. Vision Board Site uses ground breaking brain research, vital keys & concrete action plans PROVEN to WORK! Vision Boards are recommended by life coaches, trainers & scientists as one of the most effective techniques to turn your goals & dreams into reality!
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'Mind Becomes Matter'

Have you ever had negative thoughts that feel like they are on a feedback loop and you just can't stop them? It can feel like a skipping record. Or, have you ever had the experience of negative fearful thoughts and feelings such as insecurity or unworthiness that you thought you were done with that suddenly rear their ugly head? Or perhaps you have a friend who describes the same 'drama' story of their life each time see them. It's like the movie  'Ground Hog Day'. Nothing has changed, they keep having the same bad experience over and over. Or maybe it's you who is the one doing the describing? 
 
I mentioned in my past article that I would be explaining how we can become addicted to the chemicals that are created as we think chronic thoughts. If you recall, we have over 60,000 thoughts in a day; most of them are negative and most are repeats of the ones we thought the day before.
But, why do we sometimes feel as though we don't have control over our thoughts? Why does it feel as though our thoughts are thinking us?
 
As explained in his powerful book, 'Evolve Your Brain, The Science of Changing Your Mind' by Joe Dispenza, D.C., every thought produces a biological reaction in the brain. The brain then releases chemical signals that are transmitted to the body, where they act as messengers of the thought. The thoughts that produce the chemicals in the brain allow your body to feel exactly the way you were thinking. So, every thought produces a chemical that is matched by a feeling in the body. Talk about a body - mind connection!
 
Essentially, when you think happy, inspiring, positive thoughts, your brain manufactures chemicals called 'neurotransmitters' that make you feel happy, inspired and uplifted. The ones that are responsible for these wonderful feelings include serotonin, dopamine, norephinephine, melatonin, oxytocin and endorphins. For example, when you anticipate an experience that is pleasurable, the brain immediately makes a chemical 'neurotransmitter' called dopamine, which turns the brain and body on in anticipation of that experience and causes you to begin to feel excited. Think about how you feel when you are in love and that wonderful feeling that flows through you when you were going to see each other. Or think of that feeling when you were a child and couldn't wait for Christmas morning.
 
On the other hand, when you have angry, worried or unworthy thoughts, the brain also produces chemicals called 'neuropeptides', that the body responds to with that same expectation of feeling those negative feelings. For instance, think about how you feel when the bills arrive and you don't have enough money to pay them. Or, when you are in a relationship you thought was going along great and suddenly the other person doesn't call you when they said they would. Those chemicals create those 'worst case scenario' feelings. 
 
The brain is constantly monitoring this experience we are feeling in our body and generates thoughts that produce more of the same chemical messengers, so you begin to think the way you feel. Thinking creates feeling and then feeling creates thinking in a continuous cycle. Can you see that this 'loop' will eventually create a particular state in the body that determines the nature of how we feel and behave? For instance, have you ever known someone who is just 'ornery'? They hardly have a positive word to say. They have a negative view of life and see and talk about what is going wrong rather than what is going right? Or how about that friend who is always in 'victim mode'. Each time you get together she tells you her tale of woe. 'Why is this happening to me, again' she often says. 'Life is against me' is her mantra. So, it is very true that thoughts become matter.
 
The more we think the same thoughts, which then produce the same chemicals, this causes the body to have the same feelings.  Many have spent nearly every day for decades in internal states of anger,worry, anxiety, sadness, jealousy or some form of emotional pain. When you think and feel and think and feel for that long, is it no wonder that for some they can become addicted to those feelings?
 
Then of course you have those in your life that are just naturally happy. They smile and laugh often. You love being around them. They are thinking and feeling and thinking and feeling joyful, happy, expectant of good things thoughts that produce the same feelings. They don't allow negative thoughts for long until they choose something to focus their attention on that makes them feel good. They know that they are here to feel good and don't tolerate feeling bad. I sincerely hope this is you!
 
Now, there is also something else very important to understand in this whole experience. Remember, we are both physical and non-physical (or spiritual) at all times. There is a part of us that is spirit and connected to what most call God, Source, or Love. The spiritual aspect of us is that part of us that is managing everything. It beats our heart, pumps our blood, and orchestrates and manages what can only be described as miraculous, the cellular events of this amazing body. Some call it 'infinite intelligence.' I agree. It is all good and because we are an extension of it and connected to it, we are good and are here to feel good.
 
The feelings that are produced by our thoughts can also be described as communication or guidance from that non physical part of us. When we feel good, that is communication to keep going in that direction. And when we feel bad, that is our guidance letting us know that we need to stop and change direction. That feeling is producing energy that is being responded to by the universal Law of Attraction which responds with more of the same. Have you ever noticed that the better you feel the better it gets and the worse you feel the worse it gets. That is because of the Law of Attraction.
 
We have a perfect set up here. The reason why we are here and what we want most of all is to feel good. At all times, the spiritual non physical part of us is responding and communicating with us and the physical part of us is responding and communicating with us. Doesn't it make sense then to pay attention? When we find ourselves thinking and feeling in ways that don't feel good, it is crucial to stop and do what we can to feel better. There are countless ways we can feel better. The very first thing to do is just begin to take moments through out the day when you close your eyes, quiet your mind and take long slow breaths. Another action to take is to deliberately write out a list of the positive aspects of your life. Practicing appreciation is another way to focus on what feels good which will in turn cause you to think better feeling thoughts. Once you begin to direct your thoughts toward what will feel better, better feeling chemicals will begin to flow and at the same time the Law of Attraction will respond to that better feeling with more better feelings.
 
This is the body, mind, spirit connection. It's perfect! Now you understand the reason why you think and feel the way you do and what you can do about it. You are here to feel good. The reason you want everything in your life is because you want to feel good. Decide today to put into practice the ways you can deliberately think and feel better and your life will get better.
 

'Dive Deeper Into The 'law Of Attraction'


You may already be familiar with the Law of Attraction. Since the release of the book and movie 'The Secret' by Rhonda Byrne and the New York times best seller, 'The Law of Attraction: the basics of the teaching of Abraham' by Esther and Jerry Hicks, along with the myriad of other writings about the Law of Attraction by many many wonderful teachers; hearing about it has become common place.

As with all of the other Universal Laws, the Law of Attraction will continue to operate methodically, flawlessly, and with 100% unwavering certainty regardless of your awareness of it or ignorance to it. It will continue to operate exactly as it was created, regardless of your belief or disbelief in it.

The Law of Attraction delivers to all, in exactly the same way, and with the same unwavering and predictable certainty, regardless of your age, gender, religious belief, nationality, etc. It does not differentiate, discriminate or judge in any way, shape or form. You cannot hide from it or escape it's effects.

So, what is the Law of Attraction really and what does it have to do with your life?

Simply put, The Law of Attraction is considered the most powerful law in the universe. It is the law that manages vibration. It states: -'that which is like unto itself is drawn'. You may have also heard expressions such as 'like attracts like' or 'where your attention goes, your energy flows'. Or perhaps you have heard words and descriptions such as; synchronicity, fate, karma, coincidence, luck, chance, and serendipity, among others.

As I explained in the first report about The Law of Vibration: 'anything that exists in our universe, whether seen or unseen; broken down into and analyzed in its purest and most basic form, consists of pure energy or light which resonates and exists as a vibratory frequency or 'pattern'. So, now you know that everything is energy.

The Law of Attraction states that whatever is broadcast out into the universe is joined by (or attracted to) energies that are of an equal frequency, resonance or vibration.
All energy has a vibration; radiates a signal, and attracts a matching signal back. Thoughts and feelings are also energy. When we send out our thoughts, our thoughts have a certain vibration, which then radiates a signal, and a matching signal is then sent back to the source of that signal. This happens at the speed of thought; the fastest energy that exists. Did you know that you have over 60,000 thoughts in a day? Most of them are the same thoughts you were thinking the day before. So, is it no wonder that we keep living the same experiences day in and day out?! The good news is, if you don't like the way your life looks and feels, you can change it by changing your thoughts and feelings. (more about how to deliberately direct your thoughts as we go on.)

Law of Attraction says, you can't feel poor and become rich. Law of Attraction says, you can't feel fat and become slender. Law of Attraction says, you can't feel powerless and become powerful. If we think thoughts of abundance, that particular vibration is sent out into the universe. The abundance signal is sent out and we receive back matching energy in the form of abundance. The same is true if we are thinking thoughts of lack or limitation. The Law of Attraction delivers both what is wanted and what is unwanted depending on the signal we send out to the Universe. This Universal Law demonstrates how we create the things, events, and people that come into our lives. Our thoughts, feelings, words, and actions produce energies which, in turn, attract 'like' energies. Is this starting to make sense? Is this also beginning to make you want become a match to what you want?

Also known as Cause and Effect or Sowing and Reaping, The Law of Attraction is, like all Universal Laws, extremely important to understand and put into effect if you are to learn to decisively and consciously attract the things into your life that you most desire. It is equally as important to learn how notto attract those things that you do not desire. Most of us don't realize that the very reason we are attracting more of what we don't want is because we are focused on, and giving our attention to what we don't want. The evidence of your dominant attention is the life you are living.

Everything, and I mean everything that you are experiencing in your life is coming from the inside out. This is a very good thing to understand. When you understand this, you will no longer be feeling like a victim in life. Once you understand that you are the creator of your reality by the means of your mind, you become the powerful creator you are meant to be. You are the master of your mind. You can change a thought. Do you realize the power in that? That means that there isn't anything, and I mean anything that you can't change.

We create our 'reality' each day with the thoughts we are thinking and the feelings that we feel as a result of the thoughts. More accurately, you get the 'essence' of what you think about whether you want it or not. Essence is a very important word. Essence means the feeling that projects out from you from what you are thinking. You can't fool the Law of Attraction. Remember, it is responding to how you truly feel.

For instance, let's use money as an example. You may think that you have been entertaining thoughts about having a lot of money. You believe that you have been thinking about wanting more money. Who isn't thinking about wanting and having more money, right? Well, if you don't have the 'more money' that you have been thinking about; the 'essence' of that thinking that you would swear is about 'more money', is actually the 'essence' or feeling of the 'lack of money'. The experience of not having enough money created the feeling of wanting 'more money', but your attention is on the 'lack of money' so you keep getting the 'lack of money'. The dominant vibration the Law of Attraction is responding to is 'lack of money'. Do you get it? You are asking with your vibration more than with your words. And the proof is what you are living. On the other hand, if your experience right now is an 'abundance of money', then you have been feeling the'essence' of an 'abundance of money.' The Law of Attraction makes it so.

Now, there is another very important part to the understanding of The Law of Attraction and it's response to the essence (feeling) of what we are thinking and feeling. At the same time the Law of Attraction is responding to the 'physical' you, it is also responding to the 'non-physical' you. The non-physical, or spiritual you; some call it soul or God, is the part of us that most believe created us; and that we are never separated from. It is always experiencing your life as you want it to be. It does not experience what is going wrong, it experiences what is going right. It will not join you in your negative feelings because it is pure positive energy.

For instance, going back to the money example; at the same time you experience the 'lack of money', you also have the desire for 'more money'. This experience is called 'contrast'. (more about the benefit of contrast as we go on). But, in that moment, the non-physical part immediately has the experience of the 'abundance of money'. As a result of the new desire for more money you have created a new version of 'you' with more money in your imagination. This is also known as your 'vibrational reality.' That negative feeling of not having money within, is actually a message or guidance from our non-physical self, communicating with our physical self. It is letting us know that we are focused on what we don't want; in this case 'lack of money', while 'it' is focused on and has become the new you with an abundance of money. It wants us to wake up and pay attention. It's our biggest fan; our cheerleader. It is always going to let us know that we are veering off track and heading away from our desires. It does this through the use of a feeling or emotion that feels some way 'negative', so that we will do what it takes to get back on track. Think about this. This is truly wonderful! It's the same as having an internal GPS system like the one in your car that lets you know that you are; heading toward or away from where you want to be. You will always know that you are heading in the right direction because you will be feeling good.

There are many effective techniques and processes that I have available in my Life Coaching practice to help get you back on track. Feel free to contact me to find out more.


'Your High Def Life'

"My nephew has HDADD - High Definition Attention Deficit Disorder. He can hardly pay attention at all but when he does his focus is AMAZING."
~ Steven Wright


I love the comedian Steven Wright.  In fact, I just saw him perform this summer and laughed the entire show. That means I was laughing a full hour and a half. Knowing what I know about vibration, one of my favorite ways to raise my vibe is to watch comedy.  I know that I won’t be focused on anything in my life that feels bad for that period of time. It’s great! I highly recommend it.

And, I really loved this joke. It immediately caused me to relate it to the Understanding of the Universal Laws. Remember, your point of attention is your attraction. We have all heard of the children diagnosed with ADD-Attention Deficit.   The description is that it is difficult to pay attention to something for long periods of time.  Now that we know that giving our attention to something will attract more of the same doesn’t it make sense to practice, as Steven Wright so creatively put it, HDADD? Doesn’t it make sense to deliberately focus on what you want and what feels good in high definition and pay little attention to what you don’t want and what feels bad?
 
 What you notice in your life, and give your undivided attention to, you attract more of.  You are a focusing mechanism.  You scan life and put your attention on what is in front of you.  You interpret with your senses and it either feels good or not.  The vibration or the essence of that feeling that is created from your ATTENTION is being responded to by The Law of Attraction bringing you more of the same.  You are living life today, at this very moment as a result of everything you have focused your ATTENTION. I hope you are getting my point about your choice of ATTENTION.

 Think about this. It’s very powerful.  I’ll give you a perfect example.  Something easy to relate to. Let’s say you are in a relationship with someone significant in your life. I’ll use spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend for this description.  And let’s say that this person sometimes behaves in ways that just drive you CRAZY. There isn’t a relationship out there that doesn’t have this as part of the relationship.  In the beginning, you only noticed what you liked and gave that your HDA –high definition attention.  The things that you didn’t like you had ADD. You filtered them out.  As time went by, suddenly you started to notice the things you didn’t like more and more and gave them attention, and you paid less attention to what you do like.  Now you aren’t as happy as you once were and wondering why.  Isn’t this what happened to you and almost everyone you know?  

Well, here’s the beauty of life. You are always at choice. You get to choose everything you give your attention to.  In this relationship example, just by practicing HDADD; by intentionally focusing on the things you like about your partner and your relationship and taking your focus off of what drives you crazy,  you will change the whole experience.  Focus on what is going right, and watch as you attract more of what is going right. Focus on the positive aspects of your partner and watch as your experience more and more of those aspects.

Here is one of the processes I suggest to my clients in my Life Coaching practice. Get a notebook dedicated to writing down positive aspects.  It’s aptly called your ‘Book of Positive Aspects’.  No matter what you are experiencing in any area of your life, you can change your relationship to it by putting your attention on the positive aspects and writing them down in your ‘Book of Positive Aspects’.  In my relationship example, write the person’s name at the top of the page and write out all the positive aspects.  Knowing that your point of attention is your point of attraction and that every thought has a frequency that is being responded t , you will be projecting out good feelings as you focus on all those wonderful aspects. The unwavering Universal Laws are always responding . The Law of Attraction guarantees that you will attract more of the same.  So what you will be experiencing from this practice, is more good feelings. And as I have reminded you in my other reports, the reason you want anything in your life is because you believe it will cause you to feel good.  Including this process in your day will increase the amount of time you feel good which is what all you really want.  



'Good Vibrations'

The Beach Boys were definitely picking up on the Understanding of the Universal Laws when they wrote their famous song 'Good Vibrations.' This song has been played countless times. And no wonder; We love it. The title matches the song and it's effect on us. And the words convey just what they were feeling at the time. I especially like the line 'gotta keep those lovin' good vibrations'.   
 
Everything is energy and all energy has a vibration.  Every thought we think, has a vibration that has a frequency that is then responded to by the Law of Attraction and matched with more of the same. Do you remember that you have over 60,000 thoughts in a day? Now that you know that those thoughts are being responded to, are you beginning to realize how it is that you can find yourself sometimes having one heck of a bad day that began with one negative thought?
 
You are here to feel good. It is the most important thing in your life. It is the reason you want everything. You are hardwired to go toward what feels good and away from pain. The reason for this is because we are vibrational beings mostly. Maybe you have heard the expression that we are spiritual beings having a physical experience. Think about it; our physical body feels pain and pleasure, our mind thinks thoughts and we have emotions that let us know how we are doing. All of those experiences are vibrational. You can't see a feeling, a thought or an emotion.
 
Understanding this is crucial to creating the life you desire.'  Let's say you've been wanting something for a while and it hasn't happened yet. How about we use the example of a new house. Wouldn't that be wonderful! A beautiful new home! But, each time you think about it, your thoughts go like this ' I can't afford a new house', ' who am I kidding', ' I'll never get a loan, not in this lousy economy,'; or perhaps you look around the house you are living in and think ' I hate this house', 'it's so small, there's no storage space and there aren't enough closets', 'I can't stand being on this busy road,' and 'I wish my neighbors would get rid of that damn barking dog!'
 
Each time you think about wanting a new house, you feel negative and each time you discuss your current house with your friends you condemn it and complain.
 
Can you possibly be a vibrational match to what you want with this type of negative frequency?  Can you think, feel and emote 'bad' and feel good? Can you focus on the lack of something and attract it to you? Absolutely not! What you can do, is decide that you are going to attract your new desires by sending out 'good vibrations.'
 
So, now let's create that new house. Each time you think about your beautiful new home, use your imagination to create it in your mind. Think about it in detail. Imagine walking through the large bright sunny rooms with the windows that overlook a beautiful view; the space to store things and the many walk in closets;  the beautiful furnishings;  the quite street and the neighbors that have a dog that doesn't bark. Now when you talk about your desire for a new house you say things like 'I'm looking forward to living in a big beautiful house; ' I know there is a way for me to afford my new house and I'll figure it out', ' the economy has nothing to do with me', 'there are many positive aspects to this house I'm living in now', 'I remember the fun parties and holiday's I've experienced here', 'I'm going to begin to check out houses that match what I'm looking for'.  
 
One of the processes I suggest to my clients is to have a  'creation box.' In this example of wanting a new house, take the time to find pictures of the kind of house you want. Cut out pictures from different types of magazines the style and the beautiful furnishings; the kind of yard and the view. Even pictures of entertaining. Put all of these pictures in your 'creation box' as if it is already happening and you are getting ready. All of this is to put you in the feeling place of attracting your new home.  
 
This is the process of deliberately becoming a vibrational match to your desire. This is practicing 'good vibrations.' And most of all it's all about 'keeping those lovin' good vibrations active within you; Loving where you are, what you have and excited about the new desire!



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